There are many ways to help this sexual abuse victim. First try to
LISTEN not judging them.It is not our job to play the role as a prosecutor and make victim prove their story. Try to
ACCEPT their version of the facts and be supportive. You can also offer
SHELTER for them.If possible try to stay with them at their place or let them at least spend one night at your place
.REMEMBER this is not the time for them to be alone.
TRY to be available when they (the victim) need you and
TRY to give comfort to them.
ENCOURAGE them to start a new life or even better
TRY to build their self-esteem back.
Put aside your feelings and deal with them some where-else. Although it is supportive for a rape survivor to know that others are equally upset with what happen,it
DOES THEM NO GOOD if on top of their own feelings,they also have to deal with your feelings of rage and
ANGER.
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